Does My Autistic Child Understand Me?

Parents often wonder if their autistic child truly understands them. The answer is yes—many autistic children process communication differently, but understanding is possible with the right support.

Autistic children may struggle with verbal language, tone, or abstract phrases. Instead, they often respond better to clear, concrete words, visual aids, and consistent routines. For example, saying “Time to put on shoes” while showing the shoes can be more effective than abstract reminders.


It’s also important to recognize nonverbal communication. Eye contact, gestures, or even changes in behavior can signal understanding. Patience and repetition help reinforce meaning, while Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) therapy provides structured strategies to strengthen communication skills.


At Connect N Care ABA,we are serving families and we focus on individualized ABA therapy plans in North Carolina and Virginia that help children build comprehension and expressive abilities. With professional guidance, parents can learn practical techniques to connect more deeply with their child.


If you’re seeking support in understanding your child’s communication needs? Contact us today!



SOURCE:


https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC11487924/


https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/treatments/25197-applied-behavior-analysis


https://www.autismparentingmagazine.com/signs-autistic-child-will-talk/?srsltid=AfmBOoqR7-xxo-TPght_5AVvVi1NpMIxD6v8e0vrCMtNsK0AMNhf7iYW


https://www.reddit.com/r/Autism_Parenting/comments/17lpg7w/will_my_autistic_child_ever_have_a_conversation/


https://www.autism.org.uk/advice-and-guidance/topics/about-autism/autism-and-communication

Fayge Orzel • December 9, 2025
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